In terms of general parenting, the best book (do note, I'm making an 
absolute statement here!) is

"The Science of Parenting" by Margot Sunderland.

It's not a 'how to' but a 'why' book.  In contains the last 15 years of 
brain based research on child psychobiology and development, in a handy 
and readable form for parents.  If I had the money, I'd buy it for every 
parent on the planet.

It explains clearly why co-sleeping makes babies happier and healthier, 
and how Crying It Out can kill them.  It takes you through all 
developmental stages, and explains the science of why some 'parenting 
styles' work, and why others are damaging.  It makes a strong scientific 
statement for why physical health and well being is linked to mental 
health and self esteem, and supports all the basics of what we'd call 
sound parenting in this community - breastfeeding, baby wearing and 
following the child's lead.

It is a marvel.

Even if it doesn't mention breastfeeding but in one passing reference.

Supernanny et al need not bother to open its covers.

If you've never seen it - go find a copy and look at it.  That it 
doesn't advocate any 'style' of parenting, is a plus - you'll never be 
accused of bias!

In terms of actual baby care - breastfeeding etc - I reckon the Sears 
"The Baby Book" has it all.  It even tells you how to fit for first shoes!

Morgan Gallagher

Linda Hill wrote:
>  
>     Jane,
>  
>           I really liked your analogy of the book.  And as a general rule,
> that is the best guideline.  But what book would you suggest for those who
> "haven't got a clue"!  I have come across some clients who absolutely have
> no idea what a "feeding cue" is, or what things you would check if the baby
> is crying, or knowing when to burp, or how to burp, when to change a diaper,
> how to bathe the baby, cord care, circumcision care, car seat
> safety..............

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