My boss'e solution to avoiding the problem of upsetting somebody by promoting
breastfeeding is to NOT promote or discuss breastfeeding  or it's advantages
to the postpartum woman unless she wants to.  I asked her what her plan is
for discussing immunizations to women who against them.  Or what about
discussing going to bed with a bottle and nursing bottle mouth to parents who
come in and are giving bottles in bed to their children.  Why is what I did
any different,  or the mother who comes to WIC her baby in a lap instead of
an infant protection seat.  How can I get her to use her head about this.