Cynthia,
Idon't evenknow you, but I feel so bad for you!  What a horror story you've
been through. I'm sorry you missed the exam.  It will be there next year, and
you will not have forgotten what you studied.  The main thing is your health.
 Lean on your friends around you, ask for help from lots of them, not
depending totally on your husband.  Keep in touch here.  I hope this is
something short-lived for you.  Best wishes.
Paula