Loni wrote:
"Turned out to be very interesting consult.  Maybe when this mom learns that
 her baby son will still love her when she sets healthy, age appropriate
 boundaries....she might be able to try out some boundaries on her husband.
 You think????"

Sounds to me like you did a great job w/ the situation. This moms sounds like she needs to get some control of her life in a way which still allows her to feel loved and loving. Your suggestions were right on target with this.
Jennifer Tow, IBCLC, CT, USA

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