Hi Royce
It can't hurt so go to it.  Advantages will include the mother feeling like
she is able to 'do something' for her very unwell baby (I also have a nine
year old baby!).  Of course you know Jessica will need much practical
support and a good sling to get herself and the rest of the family through
this.  Her energies will need to be directed towards caring for her kids.
Is there a community that can roster things like cooking, cleaning, washing
and transport so that she can just be there for herself and her kids?
Best thought
Nina

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