Dani:

  i think that one can almost aways say... some mother find that... othe
choose other cources.. it is important to find what FEELS right for you....

 re: sleep.. logically... whena baby starts to cry down the hall htey must
cry long enough and loud enough to wake you. you must come completely awake
in order to get up and go down to them by this time they are REALLY crying
and it takes a whole lot of work to get them back to sleep........ if they
are within arms length... often mom hears them when they first start to stir
and needs only  to touch them and confort them and they return to sleeo. if
they need to be nursed you can wrap them with without having to get up or
even be fully awake.

          Patricia