In a message dated 2/21/01 11:21:28 AM Pacific Standard Time,
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> .
>      Can you please share some of the experiences you have had with
> fathers? For example, what are the fathers' attitudes when you invite them
> to breastfeeding counseling sessions? Have you heard many negative or
> positive comments from fathers about breastfeeding?
>
> I have found that when fathers are involved in bfing classes, they are
> pretty easily influenced by the advantages of bfing including:
> No night feeding for them to have to do, less smelly poops and spits, the
> weight lost for mom and the economics of it. I tell Dads to list these
> economic benefits and add them up, $1500 plus saved over the first year in
> formula costs, less medications at an average of 6 ear infections the first
> year those meds can cost over $100 each time plus physician visits at $65 a
> visit ( I also point out that many babies have more then 6 ear infections
> the first year), stronger teeth with less cavities ( may be able to save on
> braces--WOW that's $3000), stronger bones and less fractures-even one can
> cost $1000 or so! How about less constipation and gastrointestinal
> illnesses-I ask who wants to put the price on one episode of diarrhea or
> constipation!! How about as saving on just one hospitalization for an
> infection --maybe $2000 for that. How about tubes in the ears_ I heard
> that's about $1500 and what if it fails and has to be done again.
> Breastfeeding may be worth thousands of dollars!!!

 Also Dads love the idea that they can do other things like baths, bedtime
routines,
> taking baby for walks and car rides, teaching the baby the fine points of
> football, basketball and baseball while stretched out on the sofa after
> dinner and teaching them music appreciation--I tell Dads that this is the
> one time they can sing all they want to and no one will tell them to hush!!
>
> Barbara Whitehead, IBCLC
>

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