Deborah,

Well he must be listening, but why do western men feel this need to feed the
baby? When baby starts solids, then they can feed the baby.  In the meantime,
why not cuddle baby, bathe baby, play with baby, bring mom water, cook
dinner, etc., etc.,etc.

I guess I have been taking my husband, who is Vietnamese, for granted when it
comes to all these issues of nurturing babies.  I guess when he gets back
from his trip to Vietnam, I'll let him know.  Last time I spoke with him he
was ill----3 days of diarrhea.  This is his first time back in 22 years.  He
confessed he was having a heck of a time adjusting!  I sent him along with
mega Vitamin C but no Pepto!

Aloha,
Gloria Thai  LLLLeader Hawai'i