Subject: | |
From: | |
Reply To: | |
Date: | Tue, 29 Feb 2000 09:46:52 -0400 |
Content-Type: | text/plain |
Parts/Attachments: |
|
|
> My
>discomfort stems from my feeling that I really want breastfeeding to be a
>mainstream kind of phenomenon
Indeed, both my kids eagerly went for overnights all by themselves at
Grandma's well before (in one case *many years* before) they were weaned. A
breastfeeding child isn't necessarily a must-have-mother-all-the-time
child. Granted, they slept in Grandma's bed when they went...
That experience has been reassuring to divorced toddler moms who are faced
with "giving up" their 2 or 2 1/2 year old nursling for an overnight with
Dad. Depending on the child and his relationship with his dad, it can be an
adventure, not a trauma - at the very least, in my limited experience it
hasn't been the trauma that the mother expected it would be, and nursing
hasn't been affected. If I had been at Grandma's my sons would have
insisted on being nursed to sleep. Since I wasn't there, they were
Grandma'd to sleep, which was also fine with them.
Diane Wiessinger, MS, IBCLC, LLLL Ithaca, NY
***********************************************
The LACTNET mailing list is powered by L-Soft's renowned
LISTSERV(R) list management software together with L-Soft's LSMTP(TM)
mailer for lightning fast mail delivery. For more information, go to:
http://www.lsoft.com/LISTSERV-powered.html
|
|
|