Dear Tina, this love/hate relationship with one's own breasts for whatever
reason (lg. development, abuse) confounds all of us at times. I can't help
but think there is so much cultural garbage tied into this too.  Knew a
young woman  who developed early, her father used to make crude comments
about her developing bust.  After her mom died of br ca she was very
pleased to have her br removed prophylactically.  There was so  much
psychological baggage tied into this whole case.  Sad.  Sincerely, Pat in
SNJ