Heather, I believe that Jack Newman does a great piece on guilt. Cindy, what is that url? Kathleen Kathleen B. Bruce, BSN, IBCLC co-owner Lactnet,TLC, Indep. Consultant Williston, Vermont, where autumn is in full color... mailto:[log in to unmask] Check these pages out... http://together.net/~kbruce/proj.html http://together.net/~kbruce/answers.htm LACTNET Archives http://library.ummed.edu/lsv/archives/lactnet.html