In a message:

<<Can some of you tell me what you say to moms who have older babies (say 9
months and up) and who are terribly frustrated by the baby's inability to
sleep?  By this I mean mom nurses baby, puts baby down, and baby wakes up
immediately screaming for mommy.>>

In addition to all the good suggestions so far: Develop a nightime routine to
cue relaxation prior to bedtime: warm bath with massage, read a book, cuddle
with a favorite blankie.

Deb