Pumped milk is good at room temperature for at least 6 or 8 hours and
probably longer. Express your milk, keep it with your personal effects
(on ice if you wish) and tell them what they can do with their
refrigerator.
I would say that if you can swing it, stay at home with your child.
Better for him, better for you. Who needs the sort of atmosphere you
are describing in your post?
I am sure there is some sort of law that could protect your rights, but
I don't know.
Jack Newman, MD, FRCPC