Anne -
Why do you not refer to community bf support groups?  Many mothers have found
it very helpful to meet other bf moms as well as to have a knowledgeable
person to call for questions, worries or just for support.  And of course
they can call as often as they want and it's all for free.  Groups like LLL
also have extensive libraries of books to borrow or buy.
I would like to see all bf people working together to support the bf mom,
without any feelings of "territory" or snapping over perceived differences in
"philosophy".
Cynthia