So sorry, Lisa.  No need to worry your conscience about whether you did the right thing.  Also wouldn't lose sleep over your reputation with mothers or others.  And I hope the mom finally FED THE BABY!  

Second and third the other responses, particularly the documentation.  They have likely violated who knows what laws about confidentiality.  I wonder if this is one of those times when you need to have the help of your superiors in communicating with the pediatrician. I'm also guessing this could be a Medi-Cal patient? Maybe a little probing on their part.  It would be helpful to have documentation of the pediatrician's history of being non-responsive.

Mary L. Wagner-Davis, MS, IBCLC
Roseville, CA

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