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Date: | Tue, 9 Oct 2007 15:06:44 EDT |
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Arly writes:
Find out where she's coming from, and go there.
Listen.
When appropriate, agree.
Let some of the incorrect stuff pass, for the moment.
Empathize.
Find the one door that is unlocked.
Gently let yourself through.
Arly,
Wonderfully said, and probably applicable to any relationship/situation
where people are hurt, strong in their opinions, and/or just didn't get to learn
what they needed to help themselves. Actually, anywhere people have trouble
communicating. Useful with teengers and other living beings...:)
Peace,
Judy
Judy LeVan Fram, PT, IBCLC, LLLL
Brooklyn, NY, USA
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