Find out where she's coming from, and go there.
Listen.
When appropriate, agree.
Let some of the incorrect stuff pass, for the moment.
Empathize.
Find the one door that is unlocked.
Gently let yourself through.
Arly Helm, MS, IBCLC
Enjoying autumn in the Sierra Nevadas.
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