Given the increase in posts on this - and they do concern breastfeeeding
rates directly - I thought it might be useful to remind people that
there is a difference between 'co-sleeping' and 'bed sharing'.
There is a tendancy for people to use the phrase 'co-sleeping' for 'bed
sharing', as co-sleeping sounds more up to date and somehow more 'hip'
and cool' - even more scientific. Or at least, not old-fashioned :-)
But 'co-sleeping' is not bed sharing. Co-sleeping means baby is either
by your bed, as in on their own mattress by your mattress, or in a side
attaching crib or cradle. Baby is in baby's space, you are in your
space, and the two spaces directly connect. In fact, a baby in a
seperate crib, two inches from the mother, and with the mother touching
and breathing on the baby, can be said to be 'co-sleeping'.
Co-sleeping in hospitals is quite simple affair, as a side car can be
attached to the mother's bed. Simple in theory, but I expect there will
be huge fuss about how much money this would cost - plastic boxes would
not do it. Mother does need to be able to touch, and breathe on, the baby.
Bed sharing, on the other hand, requires mother and baby to be in the
same bed - on the same mattress. More care needs to be taken on the bed
shared newborn - in terms of mattress roll, and bed covers. However
this care is easier for the mother, as she can lift her leg and hip in
the apparently hard wired fashion, and keep the baby up to her head
level by her thigh.
Bed sharing in a standard hospital bed would not really be feasible,
even if the mother was a skelf! (That's Scottish for far too thin for
her own good.) If you're looking for bed sharing in a hospital - wider
beds will be needed! ;-)
On the other hand, some maternity units in the UK have a double bed in a
normal looking bedroom, for mother, father and baby, to cuddle and bond in.
Morgan Gallagher
(who co-slept for six weeks, until her GP reassured her she wasn't going
to kill the baby, and then moved onto bed sharing)
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