I tandem nursed my girls. What I did with my toddler, was tell her if she 
didn't open her mouth big she couldn't nurse. I also told her that the baby 
needed to nurse first as it was the baby's only food and she was a big girl 
and could eat other foods. I did physically tandem nurse but not much as I 
felt too touched out. I successfully tandem nursed until older daughter was 
4.
----- Original Message ----- 
From: "Nikki Lee" <[log in to unmask]>
   I saw a mother with a newborn and a two-year  old, my first tandem
> consultation.She had pain nursing the two-year old from the  beginning and 
> lots of
> problems. >    What has worked, today anyway was the asymmetrical  latch! 
> She also got
> relief from hearing that the mom is responsible for the  positioning and 
> the
> baby is responsible for the latch. This helped with the  toddler as well 
> as the
> newborn.
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