Is it really necessary to totally separate baby from mom in order
for dad to visit?  Can't 2 adults, if they really have the needs of
the infant in mind, be civil with each other for a couple hours?  I
don't mean the parents have to be doing things together, but
couldn't dad be spending time with baby and mom be in another room
or such to be available if baby needs to nurse?  Time of visit could
be flexible so that time spent nursing doesn't take away any of
dad's time?  It really bugs me that these situations have to be
solved with an "all or nothing" approach!

Winnie

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