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Rachel writes:
About that Cohen book: if we should just rely on our instincts about BF,
why should we do any different about nighttime sleep? What would be the
adaptive function of the 'abandonment instinct', which I have just named
here? I am referring to the advice to tuck an awake 4 month old into bed,
kiss her goodnight, and then come back the next morning. Has anyone ever
seen a mother *instinctively* leave her baby, who is helpless to do
anything about it but cry, and then not respond to the baby's distress?
Because I sure haven't! When I see it it is ALWAYS a learned behavior,
usually from some crackpot book.
And I say AMEN!!!
Kathy Boggs, RN, IBCLC
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