In einer eMail vom 30-09-02 0:58:48 West-Europa (zomertijd) schreibt
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> "Parenting with Love and Logic" to do with a child that wakes
> you up in the night, is to hire a babysitter and tell the child that since
> he keeps waking them up at night, they are going to a motel so they can get
> a good night's sleep....and then tells the babysitter to tell the child
> that she doesn't know how to take care of night time needs so he can't wake
> her up either.   This is supposed to "teach" the child not to bother the
> parents at night.

With some imagination I can find some ''certain kind'' of logic in this
approach. But I can't anything about the "love" part in abandoning a child
that needs his parents and leaving it to a sitter that is istructed to not
know how to tend to the child's needs.

Warmly greeting,

Gonneke
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Gonneke van Veldhuizen
IBCLC   ---|||---   LLLL   ---|||---   MOM
primairy schoolteacher

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