Personally I would use 2% cow's milk as a first try.  If that doesn't work
try the soy, I know some mom's with toddlers who use the rice milk.  These
kids would have some breast milk in their diet and other foods and a
multivit would be appropriate.
Sincerely, Pat in SNJ, who had a dairy sensitive baby who has never used
milk, at 38,  he is 6'2" and still avoids milk.

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