And this man was a Doctor!!!!!!AARRGGGGGGGGGG!!!! what a baby and it was all
her fault -the mama/virgin myth did he never learn to share. quit come in at
all hours and help with the baby . he was mad she did't come to the door.
what about he finds themtakes care of the baby a while. let her cook, take a
shower- 15 minute nap --wow then a New Woman for Him-  always balme the
breastfeeding.


mechell
----- Original Message -----
From: Gonneke van Veldhuizen-Staas <[log in to unmask]>
Sent: Saturday, September 23, 2000 10:10 AM
Subject: Re: Oprah does it again (not!)


> > Although this was not handled in a positive manner at all, I'd like to
> > query all of you.  What sort of suggestions to you offer to couples who
> > are needing to re-connect after the birth of a baby?  What do you all
> > tell to new parents about the mother feeling "touched out?" What do you
> > say to fathers (or anyone, for that matter) to help them deal with any
> > negative feelings?  I'm looking for wise suggestions, something I can
> > print up on a list for a personal handy reference.
>
> Well, I haven't thought much about that myself, but I do know what my dh
would
> tell such a collegue-father, but that's not suitable for printing... it
comes
> close to men behave like little boys and not being worth having such a
fine
> mother for his children.
>
> My children have a wonderfull dad who would have been real angry hadn't I
> choosen to breastfeed all 5 of them.
>
> Gonneke van Veldhuizen, IBCLC, living in Maaseik, Belgium
> http://www.users.skynet.be/eurolac
> [log in to unmask]
>

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