> Suggesting that we not struggle against viewing the breast as a sex object
> because both men and women get pleasure out of it (KD)
and:
> *Women* get pleasure out of having breasts as part of their sexuality (HWN)


I think I've read somewhere that about half of women do absolutely NOT enjoy,
but rather hate breast manipulation of any kind in loveplay (of whom I am 1).
And I do know that there are lots of men who love the lactating breasts of their
spouse even more than when non-lactating (especially the milk spraying part
-))  )

But I wonder: could it be possible that breasts become more sexually attractive
in cultures where they are 1) hidden most of the time and 2) denied the men when
they are infants?  Just musing...

Gonneke van Veldhuizen, IBCLC

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