Help ! I recall reading a post or collection possibly r/t Diane Wiessinger
it ran somthing like:" Every time we accept a free lunch etc. we are in
essence charging the lunch (perks) to the unsuspecting mother who buys
ABM..."
        Where ?, when ? was this posted and can I get a copy ? please
e-mail private or re-post it, it was great and said  VERY CLEARLY  tia,
ruthy wilson!
        I also tried to e-mail a request to Diane W. to get a compilation
of the posts r/t her ethical dilemma and it got spit back at me...... Diane
???are you out there ?