There is an older, but still excellent, article on this type of 
situation at the La Leche League website.

http://www.llli.org/Law/NBJanFeb96p4.html

I would encourage this woman to talk with her lawyer about setting up 
some mediation with her ex and his lawyer. Hopefully the adults can 
come up with a sensible, caring plan for this child to be with his 
father and still have developmentally appropriate needs met.

Courts aren't the best medium for parenting choices.

All the best,

Victoria Fisher, LLLL, APL

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