I'm a long time leader.  I'm going to go out on a limb and say, you can
give the mom any info on drugs if she asks, as long as you include the ref.
 This is simply sharing info.  You're not prescribing or telling her it is
OK, just here is the info.  I'll be interested to see what answers you get
on Lactnet.  Sincerely, Pat in SNJ