Lisa, you are a woman after my own heart.  Of course I approve of EATing your
dessert!  Cheesecake is SOooooo much more fun than Coke!  I can get
stimulated for zero calories with coffee! (I like the new flavored stuff that
tastes sweet without the calories or fat of the instant flavored coffees).

Ever think that when a baby breastfeeds that the jaw action is a lot like
that used in eating solids?  Drinking liquids is a different jaw action.
 (just see what talking to me about dessert conjures up?)

Martha, who'd rather eat her chocolate chips in a bagel than in a cookie any
day (that's how I rationalize my chocolate indulgence - by limiting the
additional fat and sugar)