Hi Trish, 1. Practice discreetly rolling your eyeballs back in your head. 2. Learn the fine art of muttering under your breath Jack's famous line "Arrrggghhhh!" 3. Program your speed-dial phone with 2 or 3 trusted colleagues who will listen to these stupid tales and laugh (or cry) with you. 4. Keep reading Lactnet, and contribute these stupid stories for our collective amusement. Seriously for a minute - keep track of the nonsense, and work the myths into your educational work with mothers. Rome wasn't built in a day, and neither will these myths go away quickly, quietly or gently. Persistence pays off - I truly can say that the myths circulating in 1999 are less stupid than the myths of 1989 or 1979. Maggots cannot stand the sunlight, so keep shining the light of correct information on the myths whenever you can do so without creating a major social scene. OK, maybe even when exposing the myths DOES create a scene. Make sure your facts are correct because newer research keeps changing what we "know" about breastfeeding. We are the "peer support group" for one another in this work. Welcome aboard! Linda J. Smith, BSE, FACCE, IBCLC (a.k.a. Coach Smith) Bright Future Lactation Resource Centre Dayton, OH USA http://www.bflrc.com *********************************************** The LACTNET mailing list is powered by L-Soft's renowned LISTSERV(R) list management software together with L-Soft's LSMTP(TM) mailer for lightning fast mail delivery. For more information, go to: http://www.lsoft.com/LISTSERV-powered.html