Like most new things, you get so used to it, it becomes a way of life. After she had moved to her own bed, my daughter used to come in to ours when she woke up in the middle of the night. We never even knew she was there. If people only realized, it is easier to just meet their needs. I had a friend who told me I was making my son a whimp because he nursed forever, slept with us, had his "boo-boos" kissed and hugged away. He is a wonderful independent 16 year old, not a whimpy bone in his body. *********************************************** The LACTNET mailing list is powered by L-Soft's renowned LISTSERV(R) list management software together with L-Soft's LSMTP(TM) mailer for lightning fast mail delivery. For more information, go to: http://www.lsoft.com/LISTSERV-powered.html