I like Cynthia's take on positioning; if it ain't broke, don't fix it. I had a mother at an LLL meeting once challenge my suggestion to someone with plugged ducts to nurse the baby in what she must have considered an unorthodox position, "But isn't that bad positioning?" I have been known to say that paying careful attention to positioning can be important in the beginning, but that as babies grow and start having their own preferences, many bf mothers get more creative. I was talking to a lady at the park the other day that said she just weaned her large (25 pound) 8 or 9 month old because he was too heavy to hold anymore. I was thinking that pretty soon she wouldn't have had to hold him any more anyway..... She did say he didn't like to nurse laying down. Claire Cutler Eden La Leche League Leader Lake Worth, Florida *********************************************** The LACTNET mailing list is powered by L-Soft's renowned LISTSERV(R) list management software together with L-Soft's LSMTP(TM) mailer for lightning fast mail delivery. For more information, go to: http://www.lsoft.com/LISTSERV-powered.html