I had my 3rd child 4weeks ago and it was the worst labour and delivery and I completely blame it on the ante natal pshyce up from the obstetrician. He told me I was having a smallish baby, would have no problems mechanically and had need for a caeser even though I requested one as I had had an awful 2nd birth with only a 6 lbs baby. Anyway, turned out that the labour was 24 hours, vaccum, 8lbs 6 oz baby 4 weeks early. He came out and I didn't want anything to do with him, didn't even have any desire to feed him. By the way the epidural didn't workk properly either. Val in Busselton, Western Australia RN RM IBCLC