Carol Brussel wrote: > so how do the rest of you convey to a mother that the doctor is wrong? perhaps > discussing techniques will help us to deal with this even more tactfully. As an LLL Leader, it's especially important for me to be tactful in conveying this, and sad to say I have to do it pretty often. The best piece of advice I ever got on this was to simply say "I'm really **surprised** that your doctor (or other HCP) said that. In (reference) it says (correct information.)" Repeat as necessary, strengthening the emphasis on "surprised" as needed, supplying as many references as possible and sharing them with the mother.Joanne Hamilton Foley, AL -- mailto:[log in to unmask]