>P.S. *I* can pick up a 100 pound 12 year old for picked-up hugs. My 15 year old and I tried this. *He* can pick up his *mom* for hugs, but when we try it the other way around... well, it's not very comfortable for either of us, and his feet drag. I guess we're *both* getting on in years. Diane Wiessinger, Ithaca, NY, promising not to stray away from lactation again for a while