>If you are going to suggest using gentian violet as a
>treatment, ask first if they have (a) travel plans, (b) christening plans,
>(c) plans for a family photo shoot, (d) anything but basic staying at home
>plans......

Good idea, Jan.  Another thing is to consider warning visitors...
One mother told me her uncle peeked in at the sleeping baby and nearly had
a heart attack when he saw the blue lips!
Lisa Amir
GP / IBCLC in Melbourne, Australia