Here, here Kathy D! I too am getting tired of having to "be discreet". While I certainly don't advocate flashing or nursing naked in the mall, I'm getting more casual about the whole thing. My first priority is feeding and caring for my babies not worying that I *might* offend somone. Society is *not* going to change because it's the right thing to do. There needs to be a catalyst for change. If we are so discreet that no one knows we're nursing, how will our culture ever become a breastfeeding one again? Are any of the truly "breastfeeding" cultures very uptight about modesty and nudity issues as we are here in the USA? As my father (who used to be very uncomfortable around me when I breastfed) says, "If you see something that offends you, you are looking much too closely!" Kym, who has learned a lot about "sacrificing"? modesty when Kendall and Carlie are both hungry at the same time