Is it in Maureen Minchins book Breastfeeding Matters that there is a comparison between things done to womens breasts and what would happen if the same sorts of things were done to male appendages ? I remember at the time of reading how clever it was but seem to have misplaced my book. Does anyone else remember reading that ? Are you still immersed in grandmothering Maureen ? When will you rejoin us ? Ruth Bacon IBCLC