I have recently seen an item advertised that is basically a "side-car" to parent's bed. The ad talks about co-sleeping and the decrease incidence of SIDS and apnea, ease of nightfeedings, etc. My question: is having a baby in a crib NEARBY the same thing as "co-sleeping" and does it have all the benefits of what I think of as co-sleeping (namely baby is right next to mom, on the same bed)??? An inquiring mind wants to know... Lisa Jones, LLLL Wellington FL