Regarding the guilt issue...I had the pleasure of hearing Kathleen Detwiller and Kathy Liles present an eloquent CE session at the USWD La Leche conference this past summer. The session was entitled "The Infant Feeding Decision Making Process" and is available on tape. (While there were so many excellent CE sessions, I have to say this was the best--direct, factual, and entertaining). I highly recommend that every LC, LLLL, Pediatrician, OB, Midwife and FP listen to this tape. It lucidly separates the difference between regret and guilt, and why we shouldn't be afraid that promoting bf will cause guilt. It has some outstanding clips from public health PSAs on why if you don't use a car seat you WILL kill your baby. Let me know if you need more info on how to get a copy of the tape, and/or if anyone else agrees/disagrees with my appraisal of the session. Chris *************************************************************** Chris Hafner-Eaton, PhD,MPH,CHES,IBCLC email: [log in to unmask] HSR & Educational Consultant fax: 541 753 7340 Health Improvement Research Services voice: 541 753-7340