As I read the posts about babies at conferences some questions come to mind. There has been alot of discussion about the male vs female model of society and I would like to pose a question ,What model pushes women back into the work force when their children are infants and babies? Isn't okay to take time to be "just" a Mom? I may be wrong but isn't that what attracted me to LLL over 15 years ago when I was looking for permission to stay home and mother my last four children. What happen to the idea of sequencing our lives ? Pat Gorman CLE [log in to unmask]