Jay, The post you sent on sleep instructions from a hospital made me sick. To think it is taught at parenting classes by an MD! To say that a 4 month old only needs 4-5 feeds a day and none at night is just ONE of the ridiculous things they say. Not only will the poor neglected child be quickly weaned from the breast, I guess he will have to learn to get up and go to the kitchen to make up his own bottle of formula. These poor little babies who cry for their mothers at night.....I long to comfort them. How will they grow up to trust anyone, if they can't trust their own mothers to feed them?? I can't stand this method of parenting. Pam Wiggins, IBCLC, Franklin VA