To Amy Shelton: I don't really have that much info, but thought I would share something I heard at a conference a few years ago. The speaker was excellent and works with pregnant teens. She said that the most important thing that influenced the pregnant teens to change a behavior was how well they liked the speaker! Sad to say, but I wouldn't go armed with facts. Since you are pregnant, maybe that will help them relate. I guess you'll have to make BF sound *cool*! ;) Good luck! Sandy Arnold (IBCLC hopeful)