Dear friends, Couldn't help tell you a funny story. When my daughter Debbie went to college, she wound up with a room mate from Idaho. Her mother was a LLLL for many years. One night they decided to make chocolate chip cookies. They went to the store to buy the ingredients. They stood in the store for a long time trying to remember which brand of chips they were not allowed to buy. They did not buy the Nestles brand. Good job you think? Teens: All of the suggestions were great. The only thing I want to add is treat them like adults. I treat the mother as I would any other mother. They like that. Diane Herforth, Tacoma WA.