Ginny, you didn't write if one side was producing better than the other, or had a stronger MER. Also, how important is it for this baby to have 2 sides? Weight-gain-wise that is. After you've tried EVERYTHING, if the baby still refuses, ask the mom to express into different cups milk from each breast. Taste the "two" milks. I have heard that an early sign of breast malignancy is salty tasting milk. Has anyone else heard this? Can't remember where I picked it up. Judy K., maybe not yet menopausal, but senile for sure