Juanse writes:
> I do not think "humane" is the word here

Actually, it is.

humane  
characterized by tenderness, compassion, and sympathy for people and animals

synonyms 
merciful, kind, kindly, kindhearted, tender, compassionate, gentle, sympathetic

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