I tried making the same analogy once - that breastfeeding is like the difference between being friends and being lovers in terms of intimate connection - but in this culture of breasts = sex + all the uncomfortable feels that seems to stir up for people, I don't think it made the point I was trying to make at all. How do people react to the "naked and slept all night with your honey bunch" idea where you are? Ingrid LLLL, IBCLC British Columbia Canada *********************************************** Archives: http://community.lsoft.com/archives/LACTNET.html To reach list owners: [log in to unmask] Mail all list management commands to: [log in to unmask] COMMANDS: 1. To temporarily stop your subscription write in the body of an email: set lactnet nomail 2. To start it again: set lactnet mail 3. To unsubscribe: unsubscribe lactnet 4. To get a comprehensive list of rules and directions: get lactnet welcome