But given that perceived insufficient milk is the most common reason for weaning...anywhere between 20 and 30% of women wouldn't being female and having just given birth be a red flag for low milk supply??? Why not tell every mother that the chances are good that she won't have enough milk? I think we've got too many things that undermine breastfeeding and that providing each woman with good care including knowledge of what to look for in terms of problems and what to do about it if problems arise is what is needed. I've talked to too many women who have had their confidence undermined by well-meaning and gentle suggestions that they might anticipate that they will not make enough milk...they really struggle to get past this. Why put seeds of doubt (as Andrea described it) in the absence of actual indicators of a problem. Karleen Gribble Australia > I find that moms who have funky breasts or "hormone problems" very often > already know it - and they may hesitate to say anything. If we don't speak > up it's just another way to have them think it's too awful to talk about, > or > they may think we don't know our stuff. > > If it can be done well as a part of good care, I think it can be > important - > it gives mom power and makes her the captain of her care, which is as it > should be. That's with plenty of help from the little first mate!! > > Dawn Kersula MA, RN, FACCE, IBCLC in frigid southern Vermont > ....taking a break from all the paperwork for a VT Telemed workshop > tomorrow! > > *********************************************** > > Archives: http://community.lsoft.com/archives/LACTNET.html > To reach list owners: [log in to unmask] > Mail all list management commands to: [log in to unmask] > COMMANDS: > 1. To temporarily stop your subscription write in the body of an email: > set lactnet nomail > 2. To start it again: set lactnet mail > 3. To unsubscribe: unsubscribe lactnet > 4. To get a comprehensive list of rules and directions: get lactnet > welcome -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- No virus found in this incoming message. Checked by AVG - http://www.avg.com Version: 8.0.176 / Virus Database: 270.10.13/1916 - Release Date: 1/26/2009 7:08 AM *********************************************** Archives: http://community.lsoft.com/archives/LACTNET.html To reach list owners: [log in to unmask] Mail all list management commands to: [log in to unmask] COMMANDS: 1. To temporarily stop your subscription write in the body of an email: set lactnet nomail 2. To start it again: set lactnet mail 3. To unsubscribe: unsubscribe lactnet 4. To get a comprehensive list of rules and directions: get lactnet welcome