Interesting and sad story, Heather. I would call that spiritual abuse. A religious person would likely agree that God created babies, women, breasts, and breast milk..... but then we shouldn't use it?????? Doesn't make sense to me. Having broken away from a fundamental church in 1999 that had become unhealthy and cultic, I have done much reading and counseling about spiritual abuse. I still have some emotional energy around the topic. Susan in Minnesota rn ibclc *********************************************** Archives: http://community.lsoft.com/archives/LACTNET.html Mail all commands to [log in to unmask] To temporarily stop your subscription: set lactnet nomail To start it again: set lactnet mail (or [log in to unmask]) To unsubscribe: unsubscribe lactnet or ([log in to unmask]) To reach list owners: [log in to unmask]