Jeanette comments: I also know that breastfeeding after my father died, with the tears flowing down my face, did NOT hurt the relationship I had with my baby - or the flow of my milk. I remember many years ago when a friend's father died very suddenly. Both the friend and her sister had nursing babies at the time. As they were driving between the funeral and the cemetary, she noted that both had the tell-tale wet spots on the front of their dresses and immediately said, "I thought stress was supposed to REDUCE milk flow!" Winnie *********************************************** To temporarily stop your subscription: set lactnet nomail To start it again: set lactnet mail (or digest) To unsubscribe: unsubscribe lactnet All commands go to [log in to unmask] The LACTNET mailing list is powered by L-Soft's renowned LISTSERV(R) list management software together with L-Soft's LSMTP(R) mailer for lightning fast mail delivery. For more information, go to: http://www.lsoft.com/LISTSERV-powered.html